4. Choosing Kindness
Why can’t every decision be made through humanity and kindness. It sounds simple, yes? Perhaps too simple.
Why can’t every decision be made through humanity and kindness. It sounds simple, yes? Perhaps too simple.
Kindness—or more often, the absence of it—shows up everywhere. In families. In workplaces. In public life. Its absence palpable in times of uncertainty.
This essay reflects on a year that unsettled my understanding of Australia — from Gaza to Bondi — and asks what happens to social cohesion when grief is politicised, institutions fall silent, and civic debate becomes harder to sustain.
After the lockdowns, the world didn’t get kinder. That surprised me. I had imagined people returning to public spaces with newfound grace— soft eyes behind lifted masks, hands reaching for one another with the quiet understanding that we’d made it.
I call her Flo. Not out of familiarity or irreverence, but because over time she stopped feeling like an author I read and began to feel like someone I returned to. A steady voice on the shelf. A companionable presence rather than a doctrine.